The Communication Masterclass - Timeless Lessons from 12 Masters of Influence and Connection #1005362

Most communication books teach you what to say. This one is about what happens after you say it — and why so many honest conversations still go wrong.
 
Nathan Cole has spent two decades watching ordinary people talk past each other, and in The Communication Masterclass he draws twelve lessons from the thinkers who spent their careers studying why: Aristotle, whose theory of persuasion still underlies modern communication research; Carl Rogers, who found that people change when they feel understood, not when they're advised; Paul Watzlawick, who proved that even silence sends a message; Erving Goffman, who mapped the gap between who we perform and who we are; Albert Mehrabian, whose famous statistic on body language has been misquoted for fifty years; Robert Cialdini, who catalogued the hidden levers of persuasion; Deborah Tannen, who explained why two honest people can talk past each other for years; Marshall Rosenberg, who built a framework for turning blame into need; John Gottman, who can predict a relationship's future from fifteen minutes of conversation; Judith Glaser, who traced trust down to actual brain chemistry; Chris Voss, the FBI negotiator who talked hostage-takers into surrender with nothing but the structure of a sentence; and Daniel Goleman, who gave the whole subject its clearest name: emotional intelligence.
This is a book for anyone who has ever left a conversation wondering what actually just happened.