When You Feel Impossible to Love - Understanding the Fear Beneath Your Relationships #932074

Have you ever felt like something inside you shuts down the moment someone tries to love you?
Like you long for connection, yet pull away the second it becomes real?
Like part of you wants to be held, while another part wants to disappear?
You’re not cold.
You’re not broken.
You’re not “too much” or “too complicated.”
You’re afraid.
And that fear has a history.
In this beautifully honest, deeply human book, bestselling author Livia Emerson reveals the invisible wounds that shape the way you love — the childhood survival patterns, the nervous-system alarms, the abandonment echoes, and the quiet belief that you must protect your heart at all costs.
With her signature softness and piercing clarity, Livia takes you by the hand and guides you through:
✨ Why receiving love feels more threatening than giving it
✨ Why you sabotage intimacy even when you don’t want to
✨ how your body stores emotional fear — and how to calm it
✨ The difference between danger and unfamiliar safety
✨ how to open slowly… without losing yourself
✨ How to build relationships that don’t overwhelm you
✨ How to trust affection, consistency, and closeness
✨ How to stop mistaking fear for intuition
✨ how to feel lovable not in theory — but in your body
This is not a book about “fixing” yourself.
It’s a book about finally understanding yourself —
the soft parts, the scared parts, the protective parts, the parts that learned that love meant risk.
And once you understand them, you stop fighting love…
and start allowing it.
Perfect for anyone who:
• loves deeply but shuts down fast
• overthinks every connection
• feels safer alone than close
• fears abandonment more than loneliness
• mistrusts kindness
• collapses under affection
• feels “too much” or “not enough.”
• has never learned how to receive love
When You Feel Impossible to Love is more than a book.
It’s a soft landing place — a place where your fear is not judged, your heart is not rushed, and your healing finally has room to breathe.
If you’ve ever believed you were unlovable, this book will show you the truth:
You were never hard to love.
You were simply hard to reach —
until now.